Burying St. Joseph

OK gentle readers, life has descended into chaos once again  After 17 years in Oakland, we moved out of our house.  17 seems to be the prophetic number as we rented a place in Castro Valley just 17 miles from our Oakland place.  Although we have only been here officially for one week, we are mostly moved in and enjoying a nice view and a large five bedroom three bathroom home.  The neighborhood is five minutes from Lake Chabot regional park and a bit closer to my work shortening my commute by about 17 minutes (Another 17? Coincidence? I think not). 

The view from the deck in our new pad! 

Our frst weekend in the house with a celebratory Kung Fu Girl reisling. Yes, we look tired, and bedraggled, but excited for a new adventura. 

You may be asking yoursef, "Why now?".  An entirely fair question. Since Rusty has retired, he has spent all of his time as the construction manager for our basement construction. this is a frustrating and difficult job. We are way over time and way over budget for getting this complete.  But now we are on the verge of completion. Paying a mortgage plus the loan  for construction is a huge disincentive for staying when we can sell the house (our neighborhood Glenview still has a strong market) and save the equity for our ultimate move in June of 2027, my projected retirement date. 

We are also saving in other ways. Yosiell is using one of the rooms as a studio. We can also actually get rid of our expensive storage unit in Oakland and bring all of our crap into the garage for a thorough once over to get rid of junk. 

Psyhologists list moving as a top stressor in a person's life, and being midstream into this move it is clearly true for us. We are exhausted mentally and physically. and are counting down the minutes until we are finished with constuction, staging the house, and have signed the papers for a sale. 

Living in Castro Valley is a bit of a full circle moment for me as when we first moved back to California, I got a job as a principal here. So, although we have never lived here, I'm pretty familiar with this small unincorporated town. 

There are several ways that the stress on moving can be lessened, inclduing de-cluttering (still working on that), and prioritizing self care. I wouldn't say we are prioritizing self care at the moment, but yesterday I did go on a long walk at Lake Chabot, a five minute drive from our doorstep.  

Memorial Day weekend six mile hike. The day was absolutely perfect and once away from the Lake Marina, few crowds and a chance to decompress. 

A Blue Heron hanging out in the shade. 

My friend Bruno met me out for the walk. He's good company for sure. We talk mostly about cool space stuff as he's an astrophysicist. 

The Marina, a picture of the swan boats for rent. I'm deifnitely going to rent one before leaving Castro Valley! 

In the spirit of continuing our self care, Memorial day is a day off from work and we had friends over for a Memorial Day barbecue. Rusty insisted on moving the extremely heavy Komodo Dragon egg smoker to this rental place. It took four of us and an insistence that the smoker get used weekly for us to be motivated enough to get it on the truck.  This weekend we made good on that promise and we used it as an amazing pizza oven. Hooray! Our first dinner party.

Ivan and Rusty making pizzas for the smoker. 

Anand creating a pizza master piece. 

Yosiell in pizza bliss. I gotta say, the pizza from the smoker was exceptional. 

Full approval from the chef! 

We have lived in Oakland a very long time. We've developed many memories and had many adventures. It is impossible to move without feelings of nostalgia.  The neighborhood we are leaving is filled with the best neighbors we have ever had. Our Halloween Trick or Treating game is legendary, with three hundred kids showing up on our doorstep.  The National Night Out party was always right in front of our house.  We have witnessed families move in and kids grow into adult hood. We have helped each other out countless times with so may things. We have partied together, mourned the loss of family members and pets together, and gossiped with each other on nearly a daily basis. I couldn't have asked for a better neighborhood, truly a wonderful community.  So yes, a sense of nostalgia and longing has crept into my  consciousness (and I'm sure into Rusty's and Yosiell's as well).  Ardley Avenue (and Oakland) will be missed. 

 

Theres an old folk belief that if you bury a statue of St. Jospeph in your yard upside down and facing toward where you want buyers to come in, you'll sell your house quicker. We aren't Catholic, but I have purchased my statue from Monsignor Bezos at the cathedral of Amazon, and we have every intention of supporting this pagan Catholic practice. We will let you know how it goes gentle reader. 

Keep us in your thoughts and send us your positive vibes as we manage the last of this grueling and long process. Wish us luck gentle readers! 

The Year of the Snake Draws to a Close

According to my favorite Chinese restaurant's placemat, the year of the snake is a year marked by wisdom and intuition.  It's a year punctuated by strategy and introspection. Characteristics of this year include rebirth. As we look back at 2025, this certainly seems to hold true for the household of 3940 Ardley.  We've been through many transformations and changes this year (lots of inner alchemy) all in preparation for the bold moves promised by 2026, the year of the Fire Horse. 

On the Job Front...Retirement on the Horizon:

As for my career, I finished my first full year back in elementary school. Making the transition was no easy task, not so much because of the work, students, or school, but really because my work in middle school, although stressful, relied heavily upon muscle memory for much of it, I'm sure my first few months were filled with confusion and a fair amount of eye rolling from my staff as I relearned the particular ways of elementary once again.  At middle  school often my exhaustion was from feeling beaten down from negative energy, difficult decisions, and depressing experiences. At elementary, I often leave work bolstered with good vibes and fun memories. I'm still exhausted but way more satisfied.

I know my transition out of this career and into retirement is on the horizon and although I dont know the exact date yet, it is hard to avoid short timers syndrome.  There is nothing easy about education any more. The work of administration has become increasingly filled with tasks to satisfy state and federal mandates/compliances and less about my true passion, working with students and families to ensure all students learn at high levels. It's a corny sentence I know, I truly still believe my job is to focus my efforts on the students that need me the most, our students and families that are often under represented in the school system.  The prospect of retirement is both scary and exciting and of course I'm filled with mixed emotions about it. 

I think we all know me well enough that I won't be totally out of education even after retiring, I'm excited to be at the crossroads with an unclear picture of where the next path will take me. (Quite frankly not having a career plan is a new thing for me!) 

Speaking of retirees, Rusty is now officially retired. He has been off since June on full salary and benefits in an early out/golden handshake type of scenario. 

June retirement party.

Naughty boys at the retirment party...I call shenanigans.

As of his 62nd birthday, he is officially retired, a pensioner as it were.  That full salary goes away but so does the stress and strife of working with the current federal govenrment.  Rusty's first retirement party (with mostly EPA folks) was in June. His final retirement party was on the winter solstice this year - he shared the day with Lance, our very close friend from Sacramento also retiring. The evening was filled with good friends, good food, and lots of laughter.  Although I try not to tell other people's story, it has been interesting to witness Rusty's shift into retirement. I think he never really retired, he just switched jobs into managing our construction in the basement. I think he still hasn't wrapped his head around it as he hasn't joined a pickle ball league nor has he taken to getting up early for coffee at fast food restaurants with the other old guy retirees. 

Construction: 

"We are on time and under budget..." said no contractor ever.  The basement remodel has been a comedy of surprises, on top of a big mid-ocean whirlpool sucking down our money and  time.  Finding foundation issues (two years ago) was a huge set back but now we are actually seeing progress and can see that this too shall end.  I'm confident the project will be finished in the next few months. Rusty has been managng the construction like a champ and I believe that's the only reason we are seeing progress. 

Travel:

Our big travel this year has been an international trip to Japan. This was an expensive trip constraining our travel budget for other destinations. Well worth it though, gentle readers. Japan was wacky, weird, and wonderful.  As I typically do, I created a full travel blog on Japan and yet it still doesn't seem to  capture the mystery and magic of ths ancent/modern island.  Walt's Blog on Japan. If interested in a day by day account of our adventure check it out. 

Holidays: 

Our holidays this year were consumed with all things Aussie.  Ms. Di Drew made an appearance for a week at Thanksgiving and two weeks at Christmas.  She brought with her a true Aussie legend, Col.  Many adventures were had during their stay, a tale that could only be told in pictures.

Look who landed in Oakland.  

Buena Vista winery does not disappoint. 

A night at the Zoo for Glowfari. A chilly but wonderous night of glowing displays.  

An ode to Oakland! 

Oaklandlandmarks are the stars of the show. 

Mandatory pano-trick photography on the bridge. 

Thanksgiving card games, good times.

What an amazing turkey!

A winery in Berkeley?  Who knew? 

Official retirement party with coworkers and friends (sorry not many pics of this one). 

Ano Nuevo state park elephant seals...so cool! 

Christmas dinner with just the chosen fam! A New Orleans feast! 

Ocean beach pano trick photography, yes, I'm obsessed!

A few days in Paso Robles, another wine region  - small, intmate, extremely fun, and relatively affordable! Check it out gentle readers. 

And of course Irish Coffees at the Buena Vista Inn. 

Mandatory cable car ride. 

Another year at Breakfast of Champions, New Year's day shenanigans. Surprisingly fun this year. 

And soon after new year's day the long journey for our intrepid explorers back to far north Queensland, I know they are broke but happy! They will be missed until we meet again. 

Health: 

No one warned me that when you hit your sixties, your number of vistis to the emergency room rises exponentially. In 2025 I spent a night in the hospital with excessive diarhea and dehydration, and at the start of 2026 another trip to the emergency room after four or five incidents of the same thng. This problem seems to be recurring and even though I've hade every test immaginable, still no reason why...and before my kind gentle readers throw out suggestions, yes, I'm going to a GI soon to help figure this out.  I'm suspecting some form of IBS, looking at symptoms, it doesn't seem to rise to the level Crohn's. (Don't you just love patients that self diagnose - I know doctors do - tee hee). 

Rusty on the other hand, ended up three days in the hospital at the end of January with sepsis.  The cause is still unknown.  He is fine now, but it was a bit concerning for a few days as it took a long time for the fever to break.  He was in good hands at Sutter hospital, in the wing of the hospital that the nuses say is haunted.  No, we didn't experience any fun haunted events. 

The Art of Yosiell Lorenzo:

Yosiell has had a very successful 2026. But this success didn't come without some hard earned blood, sweat, and tears.  More accurate, travellng to lots of different shows, long nights designing, and racking up those frequent flyer points.  His art just gets better every single year and his fan base expands every year too. It's amazing to see his art not only in every state but in different countries as well.  At the start of 2026, Yosiell has decided to merge his worlds and rebrand as the "Midnight Conjurer".  This rebranding allows him to create many different worlds under the same umbrella and is really a chnace to expand his creativity.  

He has lots of really cool changes coming under this new brand in 2026, so gentle reader, get on his mailing list and check out his shop.    Midnight Conjurer Website

As we move into the year of the fire horse, a year marked by transformation, bold actions, and intense energy, I'm ready. Lately I've felt like we've been in a state of limbo here on Ardley ave. I know that it is important to embrace the characteristics of the year of the snake to prepare oneself for the bold moves to come, so being in limbo is just a chance to prepare.  Now it's time to make some moves. I'm predicting big changes in 2026, and gentle readers, I'm here for it.